Two Ends of the Bridge

Two Ends of the Bridge

"This story is good for the cheating husband, or a husband that has a plan to cheat, or a husband that was cheating to his wife."

I know how much you want to cross the other side of the bridge and see what life would be like there. I have known several married man who have felt exactly the way you did. Some of them crossed the line but others have come to their senses and realized that their desire was senseless and futile. Those who closed their eyes and made it to the other end found momentary happiness. But as soon as the thrill of their secret romance was over, they just found out that there was nothing so extraordinary about the entire affair. It turns out to be just a fulfillment of something they wanted but something they really didn't need.


You are playing a dangerous adventure. It was probably your long kept , unspoken and repressed feelings for each other that made it easy for you to get yourselves entangled in this sinister emotional trap. In this case, you and you alone will be held responsible for your actions and its consequences. Maybe it wasn't you or John's fault that you waited too long and too late to express your love for each other . But that's fate . You were probably never meant to be. In any marriage, there comes a time when we want to take off our wedding rings and live our uncommitted lives again. We become wishful thinkers and daydream about being happy with someone else. Someone who makes our hearts jump again and someone who makes us feel important and loved. But we know that marriage doesn't come with a dissatisfied or an "I'm in love with someone else" certificate. 


You are halfway through the bridge. Your family is waiting on the other side. The girl is calling on you from the other end. This is your game. The next move is yours. Remember the rule, you can only be at one end of the bridge at one time and when you're there, those on the other end may never be around when you decide to come back.


You know what you stand to lose and you know in your heart that you will give up more than what you will gain. When you embrace her, think about your children. When you kiss her, think about your wife. When you feel like giving in, think about your family. When you miss her like crazy and feel like dying without her love, think of God and how He wonderfully blessed you with a good life. You  may have all the good reasons to pursue your relationship, but remember, in the eyes of God, there can never be anything better than loving your very own family. There is nothing more beautiful than being happy together. Remember even if you think you did, you never had the right love at the wrong time. You just had a right wife and fell for a wrong girl. And I hope that you will soon realize that it is never too late to right what is wrong and find love and lasting happiness with the beautiful family that God has blessed you with.




The story was sent from my special someone when I shared to her about my problem in our family. My mother always shares to us about the possible cheating of my father. Although, we did not see in our own eyes about my father's act but there were so many instances that we have to think that way. So many news coming from different people that they saw my father with a girl having something special between them. Now, I am just waiting for a little time to investigate him in order for me to judge from my very own eye. I will do that because I don't want to see my mother suffering.

The Light of My Life

The Light of My Life

The one who sacrificed in giving birth,
The one who breast fed,
The one who change diapers,
The one who took a bath,
When I was still a baby.

You taught me ABC's,
You trained me to walk
You taught me how to speak,
When I was still innocent.

You brought me to school,
You defended me from my enemies,
You support me in every way,
Even I'm already grown up.

In times of trouble,
         You are there.
When I'm down,
          You raise me up.
When I'm alone,
          You comfort me.
When I am sad,
         You are there to cheer me up.
When I am falling,
         You are there to catch me.


You are truly the greatest gift.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, Mama.

"Project Full Moon" - How true is it?

I just read from my facebook account about the spreading of this news. 

Please read:

I just received a text from a good friend, here it goes:

Got this A1 info:

DND Sec.Norberto Gonzales will manage the May Election CHEATING through GEn. BANGIT and GEn.PRESTOZA , “Project Fullmoon” in favor of MANNY VILLAR. FVR,PUNO and GMA are behind the dirty tactics, with a certain computer expert /hacker MARTIN LEEBIONG , a korean. He’ll do the switching of prepared CD…pls.pass..

How true was it?

To all the candidates, please do have mercy to the Filipino people.

 Let there be a fair election.

Let the Filipino decides.

Please do not cheat.

Thank You!

 I

Whom I will vote for President?

Whom I will vote for President?

Came from a respectable family.
Your father was a martyr.
Your mother played a crucial roles being a President,
          in ending the martial law and dictatorship.
You will follow their steps.
You hate corruption,
          "kung walang corrupt, walang mahirap"
That's why I'll vote you for President.

A lawyer by profession,
Young but experienced,
Spearheaded the Justice Crusade,
You fight against illegal drugs and workers' rights violation.
You can do more when you become the President.
I will vote you.

A former President,
Firm and strong,
Convicted but pardoned,
"Erap para sa mahirap",
A shout for the unfinished business,
          to help the poor.
Go and finish it.
I'll vote you, again.

An experienced politician,
Opened Subic bay for free trade zone,
You launched Wow Philippines.
A member of Phil. National Red Cross,
Actively led several rescue, relief and rehabilitation missions
          in times of natural calamities,
You are always present to provide relief to the Filipino people
You are righteous to lead the country,
I will vote you for President

Came from a family of public servants,
You are known for your outspokenness.
And also for your single-mindedness in pursuing issues.
"Bayan natin, Bago lahat"
To love the country,
Is to serve the country.
Our country needs you
You got one vote from me.

A scientist,
The Global consultant on integral sustainable development
You never had the position in the politics,
but well practiced in national political policies.
"Muling pagsilang ng ating bayan"
A good intention to the country to rebirth of what was it before.
I trust you and I will vote you to become the President.

"Sipag at talino"
You have a good scholastic record,
The youngest ever to be the secretary of defense
You are under the administration,
You know what should be change,
And what to be done,
You have your own decision,
And not to be the puppet of others.
I know you will use your knowledge in righteous way,
I am voting for you.

"May Pag-asa pa"
Hopes are within your hands
You are a religious leader,
The lesser to do crimes
The lesser to corrupt
You are just the instrument of the Lord,
          the one who will lead the plans and mission.
I do believe in your capacity,
I will vote you.

"Sipag at tiyaga",
Came from rags to riches,
A veteran in the politics,
A wealthy businessman,
          hence, you dont need to corrupt.
You know how to handle money,
          handling in a proper way.
The problem in the country will be solved by you.
One vote for you, from me.

Manyana Habit

Manyana Habit

Ito ba ang rason kung bakit ang Pilipinas ay di umaasenso?

Ito ba ang isang ugali ng pinoy?

Bakit kaya tayo ganun?

Inaamin ko isa ako sa mga taong ‘yon. Alam ko na hindi maganda ang ugali kong yan. At matagal ko na rin gustong bagohin. Pero napakahirap talaga, bumabalik at bumabalik pa rin.

Ano kaya ang dapat kong gawin para tuluyan na itong mawala?

Minsan, naiinis din ako sa mga taong may ganoong ugali. May kasabihan naman tayo na “ tingnan muna natin ang sarili bago tayo humusga sa ibang tao”. Pero hindi ko talaga mapigilan na magalit sa iba. Isa na rito ang COMELEC, malapit na ang eleksyon at hanggang ngayon ay napakaraming problema pa rin tayong nakikita sa proseso ng botohan. Napakataas ng panahon na dapat nilang nilaan para sa paghahanda. Akala siguro nila na ganun kadali ang ipinatutupad nilang automated eleksyon. Isipin man natin, lumalabas pa rin ang pagiging Manyana Habit nila. Kung hindi man, wala sanang mga problema ngayong nakikita ilang araw bago ang eleksyon kasi makikita na yan ng maaga pa sana. Pero wala na tayong magagawa, nandiyan na yan. Dapat manalig na lang tayo sa pinapaasa ng COMELEC na magiging malinis at matiwasay ang darating na eleksyon.

Isa pa lang yan sa napakaraming taong mayroong Manyana Habit. Aasenso kaya ang pilipinas kung mawawala ang katangiang pinoy na yan? O isa lang siya na makakatulong?

A Man’s Best friend

A Man’s Best friend

You are such a good friend.

You are the one who listens when I share my problems.

You are the one who protects me from strangers.

You are the one I spent my time playing when I’m alone.

Every time I see you,

It seems that I don’t have a problem;

You make me smile,

You make me enjoy,

You make me feel safe.

It is hard to accept that you are gone.

I will miss the time we spent,

I will miss how often you guarded me,

I will miss everything about you.

I know that you are watching.

I know that you are happy with your new life.

I know that you are still there for me,

Guiding and keeping me safe

Now, it is hard for me to adjust.

No one will surprise me when I arrive at home,

No one will guide me going to the gate when I go out,

No one will go to my room and wake me up,

No one will ask for food with your pity look.

Wherever you go,

I am still here for you,

Wishing you a good and happy life

You are known to be the man’s best friend

Yes, I definitely agree, you are truly my best friend

I miss you, RAINDOG.

Raindog, my dog, just passed away yesterday morning. She was pregnant. She was my closest among all the members in our house. I did not notice that the night before she died was the last time we will be spending together. I was shocked when I got the news she was already dead.

Darkness

Darkness

You symbolize evil

You represent emptiness

You stand for nothing

You correspond to death

When you are present,

I can’t see,

I can’t move,

I can’t do what I want.

I feel strange in you,

It seems that something bad will happen to me

Leave me alone.

I don’t need you, as of the moment.

-jherms-

This is my message to the darkness awhile ago when there was no electricity around 7pm. And I was alone in the house.

How important you are to me?

How important you are to me?

I never knew how important you are to me until you were constantly gone for 2 hours everyday.

I never appreciated you until I realized that you are really part in my daily lives.

Without you, my life is incomplete

Without you, I am not comfortable

Without you, I cant move on

Without you, it feels like a hell

I never thought what would be my life if you leave me?

Because everything in me, you are a part of it.

I hope and I pray that you come back to me.

-jherms-

This is a message to the Electric Power who frequently out of order due to lack of natural resources because of El Nino.

Tablets: A Samsung model will challenge the iPad

 Do you dream to have an iPad? Nowadays, iPad gives a huge boost to the market. But several companies are also preparing in order for them to compete with the newly presented gadget by apple. Samsung is one of the corporations that are now developing new computers. They revealed that the new gadget would have a powerful processor and multiple connectivity options. It will be out of the market in the second half of this year.

So, are  you willing to wait for this kind of tablet or you are a loyalist of an apple gadgets?

Most Expensive Cell Phone!

What will you do if you have the most expensive Cell Phone? I just read from yahoo that an iPhone cost around 2.97 million dollar (around 133 million pesos). I just wonder what does it got? Well, it is just crafted a 22-carat gold and studded with 53 diamonds. I think that the specifications of the device is much the same with the regular iPhone we can see in the market. It was sold to an australian businessman. If I have the opportunity to meet that owner, I will hire a snatcher to get that cellphone. hahaha.
So if you got this kind of cell phone, you must be circulated with bodyguards or else your life will be at stake just because of this device. hehehe

Smoke Alarm Video Camera

Do you usually go out with your partner and check-in to a motel? Nowadays, there were so many video sex scandals that were exposed via internet. Some of them doesn’t know that they were already taken by video camera unknowingly.

Let me share with you about what I had read about the new technology that was coming out to the market, the smoke alarm video camera. This is only one of so many tiny cameras that are present that can easily be bought to the market. I believe that some of the motels already use this kind of device for the sake of security. But how about the motels that have a bad intentions about their customer, taking videos without any permission? Most of these are the small or cheaper motels. So let me remind everybody to be sure of where to check-in in order to avoid such experiences like this. Maybe soon, you will be shocked you were seen in an internet having an affair with your partner.

Smoke alarm video camera is only one of so many tiny cameras that are present today. Those devices are built for security purposes but we cannot avoid that some people just make fun of others using those devices.

New Nokia phone: Nokia X6

Try the amazing new Nokia X6.It features a 360 x 640 pixels, 3.2 inches touchscreen. If you are fun with music, video and taking photos, this gadget is right for you for it has an internal memory of 32GB. Though it has no card slot, i think such capacity is just enough. In addition, it has a 5MP, carl Zeiss optics, dual LED flash and video light primary camera. You can also surf via wireless Fidelity (wifi) through this gadget as well as sharing data with the use of bluetooth. If you are out of nowhere, you can use the A-GPS and the Ovi maps.

Health, Power, and Free Meal

Crowne Plaza Hotel in Denmark uses an exercise bicycle which creates a power when you use it because it is connected to a generator. The good thing about this machine is when you spend a 15 minutes exercise, you can avail a 36 dollar equivalent meal for free. Each 15 minutes can produce a 10 watt-hour as a supply for the establishment.

Crowne Plaza showed a very unique yet interesting for their clients. While gaining good health through exercises, the clients also share a power suitable for the hotel to use for their electricity. In addition, you can also avail the free meal, though not that big amount but such like that is better rather than nothing.

Presidential and Vice Presidential Candidates Debate - CANCELLED??

I was really disappointed of the awaited Presidential and Vice Presidential candidates debate that was cancelled last Sunday. It is the only time that the candidates can share to the people about their platforms. A time to defend and stand from each and every candidates. They have their own reasons and those must be respected. But we cannot avoid to questions about certain things.

Is it the debate not helpful to them? For me, it is a big help to  the candidates to attend the debate. They have a chance to let people know about their platforms. They have a chance to clear an issue if they have. They can challenge each and every candidates which platform is the best. In short, this is the time to impress the people that they deserve to be elected compared to the other candidates.


Is it better to campaign directly to the people rather than attending to the debate? I think the candidates neglect to analyze these. 2 hours to the debate or 2 hours to the campaign on one area? The people that can witness to the debate is nationwide. Also, it is very interesting because different candidates challenges each other of which platform is much better. Hence, we can compare who is the best and righteous to be elected. On the other hand, the number of people that can attend only concentrates to a particular area. Also, not everyone are interested on the platforms instead some are just waiting for the giveaways such as shirts, band, and stickers. In fact, some of them are not eligible to vote such as the children who just attend to witness the programs especially the intermission numbers. If we have to analyze clearly, only 2 hours spending to the debate can affect the decision of every voters nationwide. The more who likes your platform, the more people can vote you.


Is it the previous debates enough in order for them not to attend the next debate? I don't think so. Even the previous and last debates, there were so many questions hanging, because of lack of time, which needs to be answered. If they attend to the invitation for a debate, at least they can lessen the questions. Second, if they said that the previous debates are enough, then they don't deserve to be voted by the people because of too little and unclear platforms.

Or they were just afraid? Maybe some of them already admitted that their platform is weaker than the other party or candidates. Or maybe they cannot answer the issues that they were facing right now.

I know that many were also disappointed of the cancelled debate but whatever it is, we have nothing to do because they have their own reasons and those reasons must be respected. We must vote not based on the TV or radio ads, not based on the popularity, not based on the party, not based on the artist endorsers, not based on the money given to you because those money will be returned when he/she wins on the election, instead we must vote according to his/her platform. If you don't know his/her platform then it is better for you to vote no one.