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Thursday, May 13, 2010

Two Ends of the Bridge

Two Ends of the Bridge

"This story is good for the cheating husband, or a husband that has a plan to cheat, or a husband that was cheating to his wife."

I know how much you want to cross the other side of the bridge and see what life would be like there. I have known several married man who have felt exactly the way you did. Some of them crossed the line but others have come to their senses and realized that their desire was senseless and futile. Those who closed their eyes and made it to the other end found momentary happiness. But as soon as the thrill of their secret romance was over, they just found out that there was nothing so extraordinary about the entire affair. It turns out to be just a fulfillment of something they wanted but something they really didn't need.

You are playing a dangerous adventure. It was probably your long kept , unspoken and repressed feelings for each other that made it easy for you to get yourselves entangled in this sinister emotional trap. In this case, you and you alone will be held responsible for your actions and its consequences. Maybe it wasn't you or John's fault that you waited too long and too late to express your love for each other . But that's fate . You were probably never meant to be. In any marriage, there comes a time when we want to take off our wedding rings and live our uncommitted lives again. We become wishful thinkers and daydream about being happy with someone else. Someone who makes our hearts jump again and someone who makes us feel important and loved. But we know that marriage doesn't come with a dissatisfied or an "I'm in love with someone else" certificate. 

You are halfway through the bridge. Your family is waiting on the other side. The girl is calling on you from the other end. This is your game. The next move is yours. Remember the rule, you can only be at one end of the bridge at one time and when you're there, those on the other end may never be around when you decide to come back.

You know what you stand to lose and you know in your heart that you will give up more than what you will gain. When you embrace her, think about your children. When you kiss her, think about your wife. When you feel like giving in, think about your family. When you miss her like crazy and feel like dying without her love, think of God and how He wonderfully blessed you with a good life. You  may have all the good reasons to pursue your relationship, but remember, in the eyes of God, there can never be anything better than loving your very own family. There is nothing more beautiful than being happy together. Remember even if you think you did, you never had the right love at the wrong time. You just had a right wife and fell for a wrong girl. And I hope that you will soon realize that it is never too late to right what is wrong and find love and lasting happiness with the beautiful family that God has blessed you with.

The story was sent from my special someone when I shared to her about my problem in our family. My mother always shares to us about the possible cheating of my father. Although, we did not see in our own eyes about my father's act but there were so many instances that we have to think that way. So many news coming from different people that they saw my father with a girl having something special between them. Now, I am just waiting for a little time to investigate him in order for me to judge from my very own eye. I will do that because I don't want to see my mother suffering.


lina@women's perspectives said...

It's truly a great story with full meaning.
I hope your mother will always be strong because it isn't an easy problem. She really needs your support...

lina@home sweet home said...

My husband is a loyal type; but I guess he should read this story...

kimmy said...

it's a very nice story, and very true.. however, i feel sorry for those people who married for the wrong reasons, (ie. NOT for LOVE) who can not find contentment with the ones they married, thus involve themselves in extramarital relationships. they have my sympathy..